Reflections - Heart to Heart 2.0
Hey, besties! Welcome to another heart-to-heart chat. I hope you're all doing well!
On the 18th of May 2023, I found myself in Tunisia, and I took to Instagram stories to share my thoughts on family. I spoke about how much I cherish spending quality time with my siblings and cousins, and you all witnessed just how profoundly it influences me.
But this time was different; it marked my first visit to family since my pregnancy, and it left me questioning many things.
You see, living away from home in Canada is a choice I've made, and it's a decision I don't regret. I have my loving husband there, and we both have our share of responsibilities.
Yet, as I thought about my soon-to-arrive child, Bastout, I couldn't help but wonder how he would grow up so far away from our extended family. I'll certainly do my best to ensure Bastout visits Tunisia regularly, but the prospect of him growing up away from our hometown weighs on my heart. I wholeheartedly embrace the choice my husband and I made to live abroad, and I'm immensely grateful for the family we've created together and the family we've chosen: our friends.
I have no doubt that Bastout will be enveloped in their love and care, even if he can't experience the bustling gatherings with extended family that I hold so dear. As we navigate the twists and turns of life, it's essential to remember the profound significance of family. They are the pillars of love and support that surround us, nurture us, and shape our values and beliefs. Our families provide a sense of belonging and identity that's irreplaceable. In the midst of our busy lives, let's make a conscious effort to prioritize quality time with our loved ones. These moments of togetherness are the threads that weave the fabric of our lives, creating lasting memories and bonds that stand the test of time .
Now, I'm curious to hear from you, besties. Have any of you ever faced a similar situation, where you had to make choices that led to your child growing up far from your hometown or extended family? How did you navigate this challenge? Share your stories and thoughts; I'd love to hear from you.
With love, Riri
